..this ain’t WORKING…

so I thought doing the 30 day challenge would make sure that I have at least a post everyday but after DAY 04 I couldn’t get enough time to put up another post.

OKAY! FINE! Here is the truth I just can’t seem to put my mind into following the “rota” as it is. Times I come here and all I want to do is write something meant for day 15 then I realise I have to follow “the rules”. NOT ANYMORE!! I respect whoever came up with the challenge because it gives us a ready topic for thirty straight days. If that isn’t blogloving then I dont what is(see how much I love this idea).

So I have decided I will write on all the topics here but not by following the rota. I really hope that if I do that then I will be able to finish the challenge.

Let’s see if I will be able to see me through….


Let me tell y’all why I dint buy me a Vitz last year – YES A VITZ!!!.




2nd generation Toyota Vitz (2007 - ) photograp...

... I love 'em red in colour...


I am a “sucker” for all things gorgeous. I spend money a lot on things that I wont use just because they looked good on the shelves. I know, I know – I am an advertiser’s dream come true. Many are the time I have walked into a mall just to sight-see or maybe for a specific item but end up walking out with several shopping bags.


English: Wallet with Euros Italiano: Spiccioli

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I have opted for several options to try to kill(Forgive me Father!) this habit but seems like it has more than nine lives. I have tried having just enough money I need for the day in my wallet and nothing more. FAILED!


English: An M-Pesa agent in Tanzania. M-Pesa, ...

Image via Wikipedia


I have tried not having so much money in my mobile bank account. M-Pesa is a good store for emergency funds. I always end up seeing my shopping sprees as “emergencies”. FAILED!


English: Sample ATM card which can be distingu...

...this will be the DEATH of my account...





I have even left my ATM card at home because my favorite lingerie shop as always been the culprit to snap-shopping (Q: Is this a word? A: It is now. :-p). FAILED MISERABLY! I have managed to leave my card at home but looks like my mobile- bank account is always bailing me out.




My spending habits are wanting.




So in 2012 I hope to improve. I hope someone out here has effective ideas on how to go about it.



Call me B…



So this is the point where I tell you how it was a suggestion from an acquaintance. RIGHT?!!

WRONG! Because that is not what happened to me.

Okay maybe it is kinda true but let me tell you what really cut.

I was bored surfing through my Facebook wall and trying to get interesting posts to comment on when I came across a link someone had posted.

It was about knickers – you know undergarments. Now that is something you don’t see everyday and the preview was enough to wet my appetite. Who can resist an article that start’s off as “there comes a point in a man’s life when he has to remove a woman’s knicker. It’s inevitable. It’s a point of gravitas. It’s a definitive point. It’s the icing of a flirt. It’s the last horn blown to the game of attraction. It’s the last stanza to the love song…”

My curiosity was at its peak.

I had to meet this article one on one. I had to know what the writer thought about the “art” that is removing a woman’s knickers and why he just couldn’t let the thought in his head be, opting to share his views with world instead. Wanted to see if he had more where that story came from. Surely someone this brave had to have more. I wasn’t disappointed. I spent the rest of my day admiring his work. I practically zoned out. He was brilliant with words.

I wanted somewhere to write stuff too. My experience with diaries is somehow you always lose some pages or they get too old, and what’s with the dog ears???. Not really a reliable system now that I knew there was something better out there.

Off I went to the SIGN UP page and my details were in the cyber-system within minutes. I had just given birth to my baby – this was on Blogger.

I moved to WordPress last year because I felt it had more choices compared to blogger. I maintain both blogs under the name “behindmystunnas”. I intend to better my skills – I would have said perfect BUT all I want is to get better.

But then again if that doesn’t happen I will leave here knowing I had the opportunity to share my views.

You can find the complete “knickers” story on BIKOZULU.

He might as well as come to my doorstep with the above poster for recruitment purposes on that fateful day. Did I mention he is one of the top print journalists in Kenya? I should have because he is.

Call me B…

…DAY 02 – the meaning behind my BLOGGER NAME…

You reading this is simply translated to you landed into 2012 alive – I don’t want to ask about details because some of you are into those long explanations. Tempted as I am to ask, I will SAFELY ASSUME that you are doing fine and let you assume too that I am okay as well. I am fair like that.


Let’s get down to business shall we? this is the second post for MY 30 DAY CHALLENGE – MY LIFE. I know it’s supposed to be a post daily for the next thirty but I had to settle into 2012 first. Seven days later and I am ready.

The name BehindMyStunnas was inspired by love for sunglasses. Stunnas because after years of being “cool” and calling them shades, Jagged Edge came in and taught me the name stunnas(Remember that song – STUNNAS ON). I was now cooler. Don’t ask.

I was a shy girl growing up.

I thrived in crowds, being alone always disabled me and my confidence. Especially my confidence. So you can imagine my delight the first time I took my eyes on the road with a pair of stunnas; solo. I didn’t want to take them off. Wanted to walk on forever, it was a liberating feeling. Like some burden had been lifted off me.

After years of NOT being able to venture out on my own for fear of the monsters in my head. Thought of people looking at me and judging me – I know that was all in my head. Back then I didn’t. Every spare shilling I could lay my hands on after that was spent on buying me stunnas. They came in different colors, designs and sizes – I took home different colors, tried out different designers but stuck to the bigger framed ones. I wanted every inch of my eyes covered.

I could now explore the world – judge people and things back. After years of being at the receiving end, it was now my “turn to eat”. I wanted to know more about people. Wanted to tell stories about things. My stunnas were going to help me. I now had the chance to tell first hand stories – right from my point of view; literally. I could now stretch my imagination with some injection of how the “real” world was.

The number of times I have smiled to myself when I witness a situation or some(one/thing). The number of times I have winked at strangers and they are not sure what to make of it. The number of times my eyes have roamed a random guys six-pack chest and away into fantasy island – don’t judge. The moments I have taken in a girls entire look and gone home to try it out because it looked classy. The number of times I have stared someone down with a smile on my face because they were acting all “retard” – pardon my French there I am just starting out on my lessons.

The number of times all these have been made possible is proportional to the number of times I have taken my eyes out on a ride with them stunnas on.

So BehindMyStunnas

.. because they are a safe passage to explore both my fantasy and real world without fear. Eye contact can easily break one’s concentration. They offer that invincible feeling we all crave at one time or another. Also they hide a multitude of sins that can be seen through one’s eyes..

Different colours - check!!. Different designs - check! Big frames - check! Got to love them stunnas

Call me B…

…the 30 Day Challenge – MY LIFE…

I know the 30 day challenge has become kind of cliché by now and I am already 2000 and late with this one. But I got the inspiration from Fabulous Faith‘s blog.

My daily duties as per this challenge have been outlined below;

Day 01 – 15 interesting facts about myself.
Day 02 – The meaning behind your blogger name
Day 03 – How you found out about blogger and why you made one
Day 04 – A habit that you wish you didn’t have
Day 05 – A picture of somewhere you’ve been to
Day 06 – Favorite super hero and why
Day 07 – A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on you
Day 08 – Favorite movie(s)
Day 09 – Favorite book(s)
Day 10 – Songs you listen to when you are Happy, Sad, Bored, Hyped, Mad
Day 11 – Something you don’t always leave the house without
Day 12 – Your pet peeves
Day 13 – Favorite Bible verses
Day 14 – Favorite place(s) to eat/dishes
Day 15 – First ten songs on my playlist
Day 16 – Original photo of the City you live in
Day 17 – Someone you would want to switch lives with for one day
Day 18 – Plans/dreams/goals you have
Day 19 – Nicknames you have and why you have them
Day 20 – Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future
Day 21 – A picture of something that makes you happy
Day 22 – What makes you different from everyone else
Day 23 – Something you crave for a lot
Day 24 – What would I find your my bag
Day 25 – Favorite shoes
Day 26 – Favorite bags
Day 27 – What do you think about your friends
Day 28 – Who are you?
Day 29 – Why are you doing this 30 day challenge?
Day 30 – What have you learned in the past 30 days?

This is meant to be a post daily challenge.

Let’s get this party started now people…